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Do You (And Jon Snow) Suffer From Genealogical Bewilderment? – Above the Law

September 1st, 2017 12:44 pm

Egg donors and sperm donors are the angels sent from above. Theyre the answer to prayers for a baby for many people trying to grow their family. Singles, gay couples, and straight couples suffering from infertility alike all turn to the generosity of gamete donors. But when it comes to whether a donor should enjoy anonymity or not, the debate continues to rage on.

International Bewilderment. South Africa is the latest country to take the issue seriously. The South African Law Reform Commission released a discussion paper open for public comment through the end of this month. It concerns the question of whether the law should entitle donor-conceived children the right to know their biological roots.

Right to Know Ones Biological Identity. If South Africa opted to take this path, it would not be the first country to ban anonymity for sperm and egg donors. Australia, Britain, and Sweden all give donor-conceived children the legal right to know the identity of their genetic parents. The South African discussion paper argues that children unable to know their genetic identity may suffer from genealogical bewilderment. (The paper doesnt mention Jon Snow by name, but I assume that is who the researchers have in mind.) The argument continues that some children need to know their genetic identity for normal psychological development. (Hmm, isnt Bran the creepy one these days?)

Pro for Anonymity. Its easy to say that a donor-conceived person should be able to know their identity. Who would object to that? But its not so simple. Fertility doctors object, for instance. And people trying to conceive using a donor. And, of course, donors themselves. The spokesperson for South Africas Infertility Awareness Association, Meggan Zunkel, reported that most donors do not want to be contacted by their donor-conceived offspring, and that many people considering turning to an egg or sperm donor would not do so without the promise of donor anonymity.

Dr. Paul Le Roux, the spokesman for the African Society for Reproductive Medicine and Gynecological Endoscopy, elaborated that non-disclosure can be essential for some parents as they need to keep the gamete donation private for specific reasons. This can be important in cultures where gamete donation is less accepted, or where gamete donation is not accepted for religious reasons for example the Muslim Community in South Africa. Le Roux further noted that: Studies on children who have not been informed of their biological parents show that their development has not been harmed and that they are also doing psychologically well.

Is This Debate Moot? Many argue that there is no true choice to remain anonymous. Anonymity, in other words, is dead.Wendy Kramer, the founder of the Donor Sibling Registry (www.donorsiblingregistry.com) a website that connects donor-conceived children with their half-siblings points to a quote from Dr. JLH Ever, Editor-in-Chief of Human Reproduction: All parties concerned must be aware that, in 2016, donor anonymity has ceased to exist.

Kramer explains, if you are planning on being an anonymous donor, it is important to understand that because of commercial DNA testing and Internet search engines, the likelihood of your remaining anonymous in the future is not likely. Kramer feels strongly that egg and sperm banks need to stop promoting the false idea of anonymity to their donors. She notes that just this morning there was a post to the Donor Sibling Registry Facebook page, Exciting news. We are only a few weeks into the DNA journey but I think I have identified my childs donor. Kramer notes that this type of message is very common. Anonymous donors can be found.

Its just that easy. Its time to put the debate to bed and focus on educating donors of the reality of anonymity. Now if only Jon Snow had access to a 23andMe kit. He could have saved us 7 seasons of wondering.

Ellen Trachman is the Managing Attorney of Trachman Law Center, LLC, a Denver-based law firm specializing in assisted reproductive technology law, adoption, and estate planning, and Co-Director of Colorado Surrogacy, LLC, a surrogacy matching and support agency. You can reach her at babies@abovethelaw.com.

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